rkc Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 (edited) Wrong rkc, the judgment is made by the majority vote on the Supreme Court. The opinions are what comes after. And I must say (this is my opinion now) that your circle logic is making very little sense tonight. :baseball_wibble: I might add rkc, it is their "opinion" of the interpretation of the law. Not their personal opinion. it dosn't matter what comes down first.I guarantee the opinion comes first in process then gets implemented. Look for some reason you have it in your mind that only if your opinion gets implemented then its a judgement. The only difference is that if it gets implemented it effects more people. If nobody listens to your opinion (I'm used to that)it's still a passed judgement on your part. Whether it's received or not doesn't change the fact it passed from you.My logic is not flawed & If I tell you why It will sound like bragging. I agree it isn't making sense to you, but that dosen't mean it's not true.Nice debateing you with no personal attacks. Edited July 16, 2006 by rkc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
race-a-holic Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 They have a huge decision to make. Children are great.Not everyone is ready to be a parent.They are alot of responsibility.Although they may not want the child,there is "alot" of couples that would love to have kids.Adpotion is a possible choice. My wife and I are actually trying to have another child.I would probably have never wanted to be a parent but now that we have my daughter,I can't imagine life without her.She's wonderful.I would hate to have to live with knowing we had aborted her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rebel3190 Posted July 16, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 (edited) Well,my dads been a judge for 16 years so ive heard all about the kids that come out bad,the relationships ended ect. not entirely but partly to do with parents not ready to have a kid,but my friend is really immature he usually makes whichever decision seems to be easiest,i dont believe in abortion except in certain cases as mentioned above,but even if his dad kicks him out of the house and wont support them,he has a mom and step dad(who can give him a job at the mechanics shop he own)who i am 99% sure will take them in and help raise the baby,but i think if they do this they'll end up regretting it,like if when they are ready she is unable to have children,like i said this is what foster parents are for,last december i had a VERY good friend that i grew up with and was also 16 die of a heart condition that he didnt know about and saw how it tore his family apart and just cant see how people can just throw a premature life like an empty coke can,for now reason than being to damn lazy to accept responsibility for their actions,now i will support them even though i may not agree with what they're doing because he is a friend,no he didnt ask for my opinion i gave it because i think thats part of being a friend to try and keep them from making what could be a mistake. Edited July 16, 2006 by Rebel3190 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FasterThanU90 Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 im a little late on the subject but that's funny that this came up right now im 17 and my Gf is 16 and me and her have really been discussing this subject because shes 2 weeks late financially im not ready to have a kid and not in the right position but if she was/is pregnant i think we could handle it yah its a very big responsibility but i strongly believe in "shit happens for a reason" alot of society's youth these days are having kids younger and younger abortion is your guys` discission but its is a very powerful touchy subject birth is a gift and i think ull regret not havng it and it will always be ther in ur mind that "what if" and that special first unborn child that u could have had, i dont kno what kind of person u are but i couldnt live with that guilt plus there gonna stick a vaccum up there and suck her brains out it not a very pretty situation and could even harm her bodily functions oh and my GF took a test the other mornin and it turned up negative but shes still late.... were goin to a professional soon and shes gettin retested hopefully everything will turn for the better... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enFORCER Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 were goin to a professional soon and shes gettin retested hopefully everything will turn for the better... Birth control is always a good idea, a professional can help you and her with that as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomad Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 Well today i found out that a friend of mine,that i used to go to school with has gotten his girlfriend pregnant,so i called him up and asked if it was true and he said it was,but they weren't gonna have it,he is 17 and his girlfriend is 16 and he said that he was scared about how his dad was going to react so they're going to have an abortion so that he'll never find out,he dropped out of school earlier this year and has a job doing something(not sure what)I told him to think long and hard on whether to do it or not,he said it pretty quick that they were doing then when i told him to think about it he said they were still debating,its been bugging me ever since i talked to him,im worried that they are going to go through with it and end up regretting it,the way i feel is they could at least have it and put it up for adoption,i know that it is there decision but im tryin to watch out for a friend,and i think they're doin this for the wrong reasons,sorry for the novel just wonderin yalls opinions. As a teenager I took 2 different friends for a total of 3 abortions (I was not the "father" of any). Everyone is entitled to their own opinions/decisions. Whether you agree with it or not, I feel you should support their decision regardless of personal beliefs. Try and put yourself in their shoes and you'll quickly realize that there's no good answer if they weren't expecting a child or ready for one. IMO, watching out for a friend is helping them in any way THEY need it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FasterThanU90 Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 "Birth control is always a good idea, a professional can help you and her with that as well" Yah thats what the appointment was for in the first place it would be pretty ironic if she got pregnant while we were waiting for birth control... :baseball_getlost: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigboybanshee Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 I think abortion is only "right" if the pregnancy happened from rape, etc. I'm a big believer in adoption for children that are not "wanted" by the biological parents. There are millions of people out there that can't have kids just waiting to adopt a newborn. I think you would be helping your friend out more if you could convince him to have the baby and put it up for adoption. Maybe if his girlfriend were to go through child birth, she would think a little harder and be more careful about getting knocked up next time. Yeah, accidents happen, but she can fix this one in a humane way; helping some couple to adopt a new baby, and your friend and his chick can go about their happy little lives together, without the unwanted baby. :shrug: Aside from that, the girlfriend IS going to feel guilt about it later in life, my wife had two abortions way before we met, and she hates talking about it because she feels horrible for having to do it. I also have another "girl friend" that had an abortion (not my child), and she regrets it all the time. It's a decision you can't go back and change later, she'll have that skeleton in her closet forever. It could also prevent her from having kids later in life when she wants to have them. It's not like that for everyone, but I don't think my wife can have kids because of her abortions, we've had unprotected sex for almost our entire marriage. Her doctor told her after her second abortion it would be close to impossible for her to have kids; now she wants them and we probably won't be able to have them unless they're adopted. Just something to think about. :beer: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wesw Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 "Birth control is always a good idea, a professional can help you and her with that as well" Yah thats what the appointment was for in the first place it would be pretty ironic if she got pregnant while we were waiting for birth control... :baseball_getlost: and why were you nailing her with out it then. di dyou were a rubber. if you didnt i will laugh at you. nothing personall but its your own fault. it blows my mind that people dont understand how people get pregnant. insert a into b and for a bit of fun then matter c is released. chemical, protective coverings, and the ol withdrawl out of b helps. the combination of all is a good way to start or at least 2 of the 3. wow anyways. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocketboy Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 I think abortion is only "right" if the pregnancy happened from rape, etc. I'm a big believer in adoption for children that are not "wanted" by the biological parents. There are millions of people out there that can't have kids just waiting to adopt a newborn. I think you would be helping your friend out more if you could convince him to have the baby and put it up for adoption. Maybe if his girlfriend were to go through child birth, she would think a little harder and be more careful about getting knocked up next time. Yeah, accidents happen, but she can fix this one in a humane way; helping some couple to adopt a new baby, and your friend and his chick can go about their happy little lives together, without the unwanted baby. :shrug: i fully agree ^^^^ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
helldriver Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 (edited) and adoption always puts the sids in a good home right? :shoothead: every wonder why there are kids that have never been adaptied or kids that are in adaption homes till they are in the teens? abortion is the womans chicce,, no one elses Edited July 16, 2006 by helldriver Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
csrmel Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 throwing all the bullshit god talk aside, i just helped some friends through a similar situation. they are a very young couple. she got pregnant. and the guy thought he would do the right thing and marry her. they are too young to have kids. the girl isnt even old enough to legally drink. they dont make or save enough money to afford a baby. wreckless irrespopnsible drug users. the baby would be miserable and have a tramatic life. i tried from the begenning to convence them to abort . they wanted to keep it. my reasoning was that the kid wouldnt be happy living like bums in poverty and aborting would save him from a life of misery. i didnt think they should give the kid up for adoption because i dont think its worth it to carry a child just to give it away. the girl spend 9 months getting fat and getting perminant stretchmarks all over her torso that never go away. no sex during the later months and thousand are spent on hospital bills for the birth and she goes into painfull labour for hours all for some kid who she will never see again. so now that the kid is born, the dad notices that the kid doesnt look anything like him. infact he dont even resemble his own race. oh shit it looks like the wife cheated. man can you say drama. im just glad im the same race as him because i did his wife before so i know its not mine., hell i think every male i know has done her atleast once. i know shes fucked a few females too. ive seen the videos. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rkc Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 throwing all the bullshit god talk aside, i just helped some friends through a similar situation. they are a very young couple. she got pregnant. and the guy thought he would do the right thing and marry her. they are too young to have kids. the girl isnt even old enough to legally drink. they dont make or save enough money to afford a baby. wreckless irrespopnsible drug users. the baby would be miserable and have a tramatic life. i tried from the begenning to convence them to abort . they wanted to keep it. my reasoning was that the kid wouldnt be happy living like bums in poverty and aborting would save him from a life of misery. i didnt think they should give the kid up for adoption because i dont think its worth it to carry a child just to give it away. the girl spend 9 months getting fat and getting perminant stretchmarks all over her torso that never go away. no sex during the later months and thousand are spent on hospital bills for the birth and she goes into painfull labour for hours all for some kid who she will never see again. so now that the kid is born, the dad notices that the kid doesnt look anything like him. infact he dont even resemble his own race. oh shit it looks like the wife cheated. man can you say drama. im just glad im the same race as him because i did his wife before so i know its not mine., hell i think every male i know has done her atleast once. i know shes fucked a few females too. ive seen the videos. you're a cynic and you'll never add one positive aspect to this life unless you change. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enFORCER Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 you're a cynic and you'll never add one positive aspect to this life unless you change. My rkc, we are quick to judge today, aren't we? :baseball_innocent: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rkc Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 (edited) My rkc, we are quick to judge today, aren't we? :baseball_innocent: not quick and if you remember(since it was such a long time ago)at the start of this post I do judge people and things all day long and so do you, but you have no stomach to admit it. Edited July 16, 2006 by rkc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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