apbt549 Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 Stan, congradulations welcome to the club. Divorce is not a bad thing, its the start of a whole new chapter in your life. But listen man, try to contain your emotions, don't get youself in any legal troubles with her, you gotta play things smart here, meaning you better hide or sell your assets, watch what you say to her, and be prepared for anything she might try to pull. Watch your back, she's prolly plotting against you right now. Hope my advice doesnt come off as cold, but you really didnt need another guy telling you he's "sorry for your loss". Again, just play things smart, cover yourself and all of your assests TODAY, and keep your emotions in check. She can't be trusted anymore. 509876[/snapback] very true meat .trust me you need to be very smart here protect your self know .i had a firend of mine who went thru this and he wasn't going to get a lawyer i said what go get one dumb ass b/c you know she has one and she will walk away wih everything ......bro do the smart thing here protect yourself and some of the things you have worked for......good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
locogato11283 Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 what is her reasoning?? i know it doesnt really matter but id sure like to hear another lame ass excuse from a girl. i wouldnt sweat it too much stan. you know youre a fuckin stud and youre gonna pull all kinds of ass once this shit is over. id be willing to bet brooke would fly out your way and make you feel better... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cotton eyed Joe Posted April 30, 2006 Author Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 Stan, congradulations Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cotton eyed Joe Posted April 30, 2006 Author Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 what is her reasoning?? i know it doesnt really matter but id sure like to hear another lame ass excuse from a girl. i wouldnt sweat it too much stan. you know youre a fuckin stud and youre gonna pull all kinds of ass once this shit is over. id be willing to bet brooke would fly out your way and make you feel better... 509895[/snapback] Her reasons are that 1 Im selfish and care about what I want. Its because I work 10 hours a day 6 days per week. She works 9 hours per day 5 days per week. We both go to the gym, and I see her about 2-3 hours per night, if she isn't on the phone with her stupid friend. 2 I some how dont fulfull her needs. She wants it to be about her all the time and I refuse to do it. I told her from the beginning that I'd meet her half way every time, but I'm not about to sacrifice my life just to be with her. 3. She says we've worked on making our relationship better, but I'd like to know how when shes watching movies late at night, talking on the phone with her friend. If I interrupted her while watching a movie she'd get pissed off. Her friends call and its ok. To be honest, I spent all last night laying on my sisters couch thinking. I've never been that bitches #1 person. I've been 3rd or 4th down the list this whole time. I can actually see that I'm a giver, and shes a taker. She has no problems taking, because she thinks its her role in life, and that she deserves it. She'd take everything I have if I offered it, and think nothing about what I would have. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NYUK Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 keep your chin up stan.we are with ya. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigwill Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 Dont leave the HQ-we support you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toomey Banshee Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 She has no problems taking, because she thinks its her role in life, and that she deserves it. She'd take everything I have if I offered it, and think nothing about what I would have. 509898[/snapback] Thats exactly why you have to be smart, calm and cool in a situation like you have going on. Keep doing what you're doing, take pics of your stuff, keep out of her bitchy way and inventory all of your stuff. ANd most important, get an attorney! She has without a doubt talked to a lawyer at length before droppping the bomb. Prep and educate yourself and dont give her a penny more than you have to. Good luck bud. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
race-a-holic Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 I might be totally wrong but is one of these friends a guy.Dude,don't be surpised.Sounds like you're alot better off without her.LET HER GOOOOOOO!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gipperz Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 Man, sorry to hear that, been there done that. Would want to do it again. Makes my gut turn thinkin about it. Follow the advice givin by these guys and you will survive, just keep calm. We are all here for ya. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
apbt549 Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 yeah it sounds like you weren't #1 in her life anyway you will be better off with out her good luck and watch your back the knife is still in her hands and she might not be done with it yet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
banshee04le Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 Stan is smart enough to know that he needs to do all he can to protect his interests. I don't think we need colorful euphamisms like "knife still in her hand" LOL. Euphamisms like "caniving b!tch!" are acceptable though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
banshee04le Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 Hopefully some ammicable (sp?) resolution can be reached. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NYUK Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 Stan is smart enough to know that he needs to do all he can to protect his interests. I don't think we need colorful euphamisms like "knife still in her hand" LOL. Euphamisms like "caniving b!tch!" are acceptable though. 509973[/snapback] lol, so i guess " she left you for a bigger hammer" is outta the question? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steveodo Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 Wel if you dont have kids your probaly better off. shoot if i didnt have i wouldnt be married. My wife is a taker too. Never helps me do shit, shoot i needed her help today an she was laying on the couch watching soaps . So i said why dont ever help me ? so she says oh you have to ask. good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigboybanshee Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 So sorry to hear this Stan!! I know how you feel, my wife and I are going through some rough times right now and it sounds like similar issues to yours...I hope all goes well for you and if you want to send me those unpolished parts, I'll polish them for you and send them back, free of charge; maybe it'll help get you a few more dollars per part Let me know if I can help out in any way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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