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Damn...sorry to hear guys, hang in there; wish you all the best. ;)

And I just happen to read this as me & the g/f have been out 'ring shopping...blahblah'... :shootself:  banghead  banghead  :shrugani:  :bolt:

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dont do it led!! see what it can result in!! banghead

 

hope all your shit works out for you man. sounds like a shitty deal and hopefully she wont be a bitch about it. good luck.

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We'll I know I won't ever be getting a divorce because my wife swore if we ever did she was going after my Ducati and has since added the Banshee to the list. I just jokeingly say "We agreed untill death do we part and that doesn't mean that I'm the one that has to die first!" :evil:

 

If you sell your stuff for very much less than they are worth then I'd bet your wife and a snake lawyer could get the remaining market value out of you. If you truly think that its over then I'd go see a lawyer before you even do anything else. How a lot of guys get screwed is because they don't want to see their wife and kids get hurt so they just lay down and take it in the arse and when they realize how deeply fucked they have become it's to late. And don't expect any sympathy because she will feel completly entitled to every penny and drop of blood she gets and even more that she didn't. My parents went through an ammocable divorce, my dad layed down and took out a huge loan against his dairy business to pay off the family house and the 60 acres around it (60 acres of alphalpha), to give to my mom. It wasn't enough for her so almost a year later she got a lawyer and went after more, turned out she had already got more than she deserved so she kept the original agreement after both sides spend a bazilion dollars on attourneys.

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how does the wife and or a lawyer assume value you can say i sold it id did not run or what ever , no way of proving that,

takiing the money and depositing it is a good idea but do you have seprate or joint accounts, if seprate dont do it because then you can say i paid for it from my account and i put the money back i lived on it, payed Credit cards so on, I highly doubt they are going to pull records for the past what ever to see what was spent where, be up front with her and say you sold it.

does she have a quad also if so the judge may say you keep yours she keeps hers same with cars,

Traler hard one big item and if its fairly new hard to pull off unless you can show you paid something off with it,,

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Try to come to an agreement on who gets what before you start dragging lawers into it. If that doesnt work then I would do what cudaz101 said- get the hard core lawyer and hand her ass to her in civil court.

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Thanks for the advice. We are still trying to work it out. I have decided not to do this. It sounds like there are some risks involved and I do not want to drag my friend into the whole mess. Besides, I don't want to do anything now that would make things worse. I agree that if I were to try this and she found out, it would be over right then and there. The material stuff just isn't worth it.

I just want to work it out.

I feel for you guys that have gone through a divorce or are currently going through one. I have never had feelings like this before.

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Damn, I'm having major flashbacks!! I went through a divorce a couple of years back and all I can say is, Mr. Niceguy doesn't always work. If you value any of your shit, put it in a family members name or sell it and have a good time with the money. I gave my X everything : house, everything in it except my clothes and even pick of the cars. Thought everything was going to be cool. Then I went to the bank to pull out some cash and found out she had cleaned out checking and savings!!!! Didn't leave me $hit banghead Then once the monthly bills came in, she had also wracked up almost $18,000 in charges! Then when I called the credit card companies and tried to get her name off of my credit cards they said I had to have her signature "WTF" So I had to report them as being lost to get some new ones, with a different pin . I need a beer now, good luck guys!!!

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  I have a really good friend that I trust with my life that says I can sell these things to him really cheap ;)  to protect them.  Of course he will sell these back to me once all of the dust settles.  Is this legal?  Can I get away with this?

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That Was going to be my suggestion .. Just sale it to him now , so that way if stuff does get heated down the road it wont look like you sold them so she wouldn't get them ..

that would be my suggestion ..

 

 

 

Ed

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