well we can judge cause he told us she had a job and complained about her job being too hard. i watched my sister have a baby and still work at her crappy job with her asshole boss, people do it all the time. since when does becomming a mother make you a victim of life??
im not trying to be a bitch or be negative all the time, but damn. kids are such a blessing, seeing my sister and her daughter be so close and enjoy each other so much is amazing to me. to see a mom with a baby who doesnt act like the kid is a burden. wow. what a concept. to see a mom work to support her kid and not complain about it all the time. wow. what a concept. my sister would love nothing more than to be a stay at home mom, but she isnt in the position to do that. does she complain? no. does she get aid? no. she works, and goes to nursing school to better herself and enjoys every minute she spends with her daughter, even the 2am bottle feeding times.
meat, i think your error is in thinking that all of us who get pissed and criticize are a bunch of easy living people who have had nothing but easy times in their lives, which i think is quite the opposite for most of us. i know blue deuce worked his ass off and was living in his car when he and his wife first got together. hes sucessful now due to his hard work alone. im sure the struggles he went through are exactly why he gets so pissed about stuff like this.
hey, like doink, im not getting any younger. im gonna be 26 soon, i might want to have kids, but no way am i gonna let that happen until i can afford it. be it on my own or married. would you like to support me, through your tax dollars, to start having babies right now, just cause i want one? i dont think so.
and the whole whats marriage have to do with it thing matters because his fiance isnt telling the state that she has a fiance, she is saying the babys dad isnt in the picture. if they applied for aid as a couple they wouldnt get it CAUSE THEY DONT NEED IT. hes saying not to get married cause if they were married the state would obviously know he IS in the picture, and therefore his fiance wouldnt qualify for aid.