doesnt sound like a tranny issue but i could be wrong.
replace eccentric screw if worn and use cylmer manual to adjust it properly, shows very clearly how to do it. as for the clutch? is goes FIBER, metal, F, m,F,m,F etc. ENDING on fiber, not metal. should be 7 fibers. also makes sure your shift shaft is seating properly all the way through the case on the other side with the spacer behind the shifter.. if it comes out slightly it could effect the grab.