OKay, I pulled the stem. If it's bent, it doesn't stick out like I expected. If I set it upside down on a hard flat surface and measure from the ground up to the steering stops one side is 2 millimeters shorter, which is the side that is lower. Also, if I lay the bar with the tie rod mount down on the flat surface it will rock back and fourth about 2 millimeters so that tells me it's twisted a little so I'm going to go ahead and buy a new one. I just can't see 2 millimeters uneven making the bars be 5/8" out at the end. But It's gotta be because the bars are good, I checked them just to make sure. The frame and all looks perfect down behind the radiator too.